Tuesday, April 23, 2013

365 Days

In 365 Days . . .



   -I met someone who was a missing part of our family.

    - I have survived on very little sleep.



-I have changed THOUSANDS of diapers

- I have seen our laundry double (maybe triple)!


           
      -I have spent countless hours playing on the floor.

             -I have learned how to be unselfish - that someone else's needs matter more than my own.



-I have earned a new name - Mommy!

-I have seen just a GLIMPSE of the love that God has for his children!


These 365 days have been the most joyous and challenging days of my life.  I will never forget seeing that face and hearing her cry for the first time.  When I was little, I loved baby dolls and dreamed of one day being a mommy.  Some days I feel like my heart could burst because of the love I have for my sweet Lucy.  I thank God everyday for the gift of her life and I pray this over her: 

Lucy Grace,

May I always strive to be your mommy, not your friend.  May I always try to show you Jesus in the way that I live.  May I teach you manners and to respect everyone.  May I always tell you that your beautiful - but that beauty isn't focused outward but inward.  May I have patience - even on the hard days.  May I cherish each and every day with you, because each day is a gift.  





Sunday, February 17, 2013

9 Months!

9 Months
(She is almost 10 months, better late than never, right?)
Weighs 21lbs
29.5 in long




She loves to:

-Eat "real" food
She doesn't like much baby food anymore, she wants to feed herself!  She eats LOTS of fruits and vegetables!
-Open and close anything and everything!
She loves drawers, doors, purses, and bags!
-be down on the ground
She used to only want to be held, but now when you are holding her, she only wants to be down!  She is a busy girl!


She is still in a size 3 diaper.  She now has 4 teeth and more are coming VERY soon!  She eats 3 meals a day now with many snacks in between!  She loves to play and has started standing without holding on to anything.  I think the walking will come soon, but we're in NO rush!



Just to show how busy she is, if I didn't have my hand on her leg for the pictures, this is what she was doing!  She is so playful and has so much energy!  Her personality is really coming out and she is so much fun.  We love her so much!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

My Prayer for Lucy


My little girl is now 9 months old.  To most of you, that still seems little.  And it is.  But to me, I feel like she is grown.  Ok, so I'm exaggerating a bit.  I walked into the sitter's house to get her yesterday and she was standing up playing with a little girl at a lego table.  Ummm, excuse me.  My baby is still supposed to be little enough to be carried around.  She is literally growing like a weed.  The days can seem long and then fly by all at the same time.




I stumbled on this blog the other day written by Ann Voskamp.  She wrote this prayer and when I read it I could barely see it through my tear-soaked eyes.  I know Lucy is still little, but I want to pray this prayer over her sweet little 9 month old life.  Because I know all too soon, my 9 month old will be 19.  And I all want for her is to know Christ the way I know him.  
Ann's original post can be found here.

Father who breathed into this daughter . .
I pray for this girl being formed into eternity . .

May the wind always be in her hair
May the sky always be wide with hope above her
And may all the hills be an exhilaration 
the trials but a trail,
all the stones but stairs to God.

God, clothe this girl in a gown of grace
Grace, the only dress that makes beautiful,
the style of Your spirit.

Nourish her on the comfort food of you Word,
Word, that makes her crave more of Christ,
have hunger pangs for Him.

Enclose her in communion with you
You, love who makes her love, who folds her heart into a roof
that absorbs storms for souls,
that make her tongue speak on the words that make souls stronger.






Make her vocation in this world simply be translation.

Translating every enemy into esteemed guest,
Translating every countenance into the face of Christ,
Translating every burden into blessing.

When it's hard to be patient . . . make her willing to suffer
When it's ridiculous to be thankful . . . make her see all is grace
When it's radical to forgive. .  . make her live the foundation of our faith
And when it's time to work . . . make her a holy wonder.

May she be bread and feed many with her life and her laughter
May be be thread and mend brokenness and knit hearts
May she be dead to all ladders and never go higher, only lower, to the lonely and the least and the longing
Her led of the Spirit to lead many to the Cross
that leads to the tomb wildly empty.

OH, AND RAISE ME, LORD, FROM THE DEADNESS OF MY OWN SINS TO LOVE THIS BEAUTIFUL GIRL LIKE YOU DO . . .


I love you Lucy!



Friday, January 4, 2013

2012


2012 was a year of change for the McCaleb family.  It was exciting, challenging, and and scary all at the same time.  But one things always remains consistent: God loving us and always taking care of us.



2012 brought us PARENTHOOD!  We found out our sweet Lucy was coming in 2011, and she made her appearance on April 23rd, 2012.  It was one of the best days of our lives.  As many people say, parenting is the best job in the world and the hardest job in the world.  



Lucy makes our lives sweeter each and every day.  I think the Lord gave us children so we can catch of glimpse of how much he loves us.  We are loving being parents.  Lucy is now 8 months old and is quite the socialite.  She loves life and every new thing is exciting to her.  Being parents is truly a gift from God and we thank Him for blessing us with such a sweet gift.


In 2012, the Lord also taught us about PROTECTION.  On June 12th we had a bad storm and a tree fell on our house while Lucy and I were inside.  Many attributing factors proved that God was definitely in the room protecting us.  I wrote a detailed post about it HERE.  Every time a storm comes and I get scared again, I think back to this day and how differently things could have turned out and I'm so thankful to God for his protection over our family.


In 2012, God also showed us about His provision.  He provided us a wonderful church family where we dedicated Lucy to Him in August.  It was such a sweet time and I pray that Jared and I will be the parents God called us to be.  I pray that we love Him first and foremost, love each other, and teach Lucy how to do the same.  


He continues to provide for our family and we know He will do the same in 2013.  It's fun to look back at this past year and see all the many changes in our lives and how He works everything out in His time and for His good.  

My prayer for 2013 is that we continue to look to the Lord and follow in obedience!


Thursday, January 3, 2013

Lucy Updates!

6 Months

Weighs
18lb 6oz
28in long



She loves to:

-eat (still!)
We started her on vegetables this month and she is loving them!  
-move!  
She gets around anywhere and everywhere!
-bite and chew
She is biting and chewing on everything with her new teeth!!





7 Months


She loves to:

-eat
She loves trying new foods and has liked all of them (carrots, squash, peas)
-play
She is loving getting down in the floor and playing with all her toys!




8 Months

Weighs around 20 pounds
She is very big for her age but also very tall!  We'll see if she stays that way!


She loves to:

-eat!
This is a first for every month because she is such a good eater!  Still loving her vegetables and about to start on fruits!
-stand up!
She is pulling up on everything!  It scares her mommy and daddy and sometimes scares her too when she is standing up and can't figure out what to do after that!
-play
She loves to play more and more each day!


She is in size 3 diapers now.  She still nurses 5 times a day and basically eats 3 times a day.  Pretty soon we'll start giving her a sippy cup and hopefully more and more food.  She takes 2 pretty good naps every day and sleeps through the night.  She still only has 2 teeth but I think more will come very soon!  She is such a happy girl and we love her so much!


Thursday, November 1, 2012

5 Months

Lucy is 5 months old!

(No stats this month - we didn't go to the doctor)



-She is rolling around EVERYWHERE!

-Her toes are still one of her favorite things to play with!

She is still a great eater!


-She is eating oatmeal every night before bed!

-She loves her baths!


-She started to crawl recently (army crawling, but it still counts!)

-She got 2 teeth a few days before her 6 month birthday!

She is just the sweetest natured baby!  We love her so much and can't believe time has passed so quickly!

Saturday, October 27, 2012

The Perfect Storm


June 12, 2012 started like any normal day.  Lucy and I woke up, got daddy off to work and started our day.  We were starting to get ready to leave in a couple days to drive out to my parents house.  Some friends from back home were having a "Sip and See" for Lucy and then I was going to stay at my parents while Jared was gone for youth camp.  

About 4:00 that afternoon I was folding laundry on our love seat and Lucy was napping in her pack and play in our bedroom.  I noticed that the sky was beginning to get very dark.  I turned the TV to the news and saw that a storm was coming.  I don't consider myself a "scaredy-cat" but for whatever reason, this fear just overcame me.  I saw the wind starting to whip the trees and the sky was now black.  The rain began to come and the wind became even stronger.  I grabbed Lucy from our room and walked to the other side of our living room where my phone was.  I called Jared and was asking him about the weather at the church and told him I was scared.  About that time, I heard a loud clap of thunder, a huge gust of wind, and BAM!!  I look up and was staring at a very large tree.  It made a very loud noise when it hit the house and it also fell right on a window and shattered it.  I was in total shock and just kept telling Jared, who I was on the phone with, that a tree was in our house.  He told me to call our neighbor and he was on his way.




I called next door and for whatever reason, her husband was home from work that day.  He ran over and began to do things I would never have thought to do.  He moved our dumpster inside to catch the water, because it was POURING down rain in our house.  He also helped me turn off the lights.  I kept waiting for Jared and it was taking a long time so he convinced me to walk next door to his house and wait with his family.  This whole time, Lucy was just looking up at me - calm as can be.  
I text my mom at some point and told her that a tree had fallen on our house, that me and Lucy were ok and I would call her later.  That was probably not the easiest message for a mom to see, so she was very worried.  By the time I got to my neighbors and sat down, I just lost it.  I think my adrenaline was pumping so hard and when I came down from that, my emotions were all over the place.  
My neighbors also went back over to our house and turned the power off so a fire wouldn't start and grabbed a few important things we would need.  I told them I would never be able to repay them for the care they gave me that day.  
Thinking back, I KNOW it was the Holy Spirit putting that fear inside me so I would move away from the window.  Where the tree landed was right above where I was folding laundry.  And He also orchestrated so many things that day - my neighbor's husband being home, Jared making it home safely in that horrible storm with trees falling down all over the roads, and a lady in our insurance office who was off the clock but just happened to answer the phone when Jared called that evening and got our claim started right away.
Lucy and I went to a friends house where we were staying but we had insurance people come to our house that night and many friends come help Jared moved some things out that we would need.    









We didn't get very good pictures.  I took these on our camera the next day for insurance purposes, but you can't even really see the tree, but you get the picture.  It also did alot of damage in our bedroom.

We moved out of our house and into an apartment for 9 weeks.  It was a very hard and frustrating time for all of us, but we survived and the Lord took care of us.  The scenario could have been very different, but we were all safe.  I tweeted a few days after it happened that when things like this happen, you realize that stuff really is just stuff.  As long as your family is safe, that is all that matters.  (I have had to remind myself of this MANY times since then!)

Since this storm, I have let fear control my mind, especially when a storm comes.  My told me to do what she had us do when we were little girls - quote scripture over and over.  "Trust in the Lord with all your heart."  "Do not fear, for I am with you."  I have done that - and still do.  What a constant reminder of how BIG God is and how he is ABLE to handle anything that comes our way.